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Finding Mr/Mrs right

A successful Islamic marriage begins not merely with finding the right partner, but with becoming the right partner. Our Marriage Readiness Program is designed to equip you with the tools, knowledge, and spiritual foundation to build a resilient, faith-aligned union rooted in mutual growth and Islamic principles.

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Get a personalized answer to your questions

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How do I know if I’m ready for marriage?

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How can I meet potential spouses in a healthy way?

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How do I know that this person is right for me?

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What if my parents don't approve of who I choose?

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What are some red flags that I shouldn't ignore?

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What if I have past baggage? (relationships, Trauma..etc)

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What is the best way to know and approach someone for marriage?

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... and many many more.....................

About our program

"Marriage does not make us happy, rather, we make our marriage happy."

Our platform is designed for Muslim singles seeking a meaningful, Islamic marriage. Through self-awareness development, skill-building, and assessments, we help you prepare for a lifelong, fulfilling relationship. With privacy and proper Islamic coaching, our referral system ensures a reliable and faith-based approach to finding your ideal spouse.

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Assess and cultivate your Marriage Readiness

Engage in structured self-assessment, personal awareness exercises, and growth to develop the qualities of a mindful, compassionate spouse.

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Finding Mr/Mrs Right

Learn practical strategies for identifying, approaching, and communicating with potential partners in a manner aligned with Islamic etiquette and values.

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Our Referral System

Access a Trusted personalized referral Network: Benefit from our exclusive, secure referral system which connects you with vetted individuals who have also completed the program, ensuring shared values and readiness. The referral process is done under the direct guidance of our counselors.

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Mentorship and relational counseling

Personalized Support: Receive one-on-one mentorship and guidance from experienced facilitators/counselors committed to supporting you at every stage—from preparation to marriage.

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Program Format

5 sessions designed for self awareness, skill building and addressing all questions pertaining to your specific situation.

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Option 1:
Individualized One to One Sessions

Personalized Focus: Dedicated one-on-one sessions with a facilitator for confidential, in-depth exploration of your readiness, challenges, and aspirations.

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Option 2:
Collaborative Cohort Experience

Peer-Supported Growth: Invite 2-3 trusted companions to join select sessions, fostering mutual learning, accountability, and shared insights within a supportive group dynamic.

Hybrid Flexibility: Combines group workshops with periodic private consultations to address sensitive topics or individual concerns as needed.

All delivered within a framework of professionalism and discretion.

Marriage readiness

Marriage ready: Am I Mr/Mrs Right?

Marriage readiness is not about perfection, but about self awareness and the willingness to learn and grow. Take our evidence based assessments to identify your strengths and areas of improvement for a successful marriage. Those includes, our past wounds, family of origin dynamics, skills, psychological wellness, values, needs and many other areas. You receive a detailed 34 page report based on the assessments and a personalized discussion with our counselors

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How to find a match

How to Find & Approach Mr/Mrs Right

"How do I find a good match?" - "There is someone I am interested in, what should I do next? - "How do I Deal with rejection and avoid unnecessary embarrassments?" - Learn the various ways to find and approach a potential spouse. - Receive a personalized Islamic guidance and mentorship through the process that is customized to your own preference, challenges and family condition. -Through expert-led sessions and personalized support, we empower participants to approach this significant life decision with confidence and clarity.

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Referral program

Our Referral Program

After finishing the marriage readiness program, our counselors now have a personalized relationship with you and fully understand your preferences. - Upon your request and consent, our counselors use our unique referral system to provide you with possible prospects while insuring privacy and protecting you from unnecessary embarrassment's. Unlike web based apps, our approach avoids exposure to scams and offer prospects one at a time.
- By mandating that all candidates complete our program, we have higher confidence in seriousness and our ability to provide a good match.
- We then provide personalized guidance, mentorship and counseling throughout the process as needed.

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Pre-Marital Counseling

Personalized mentorship and support

Whether you are already in any type of relationship or looking to get into a relationship the Halal way, we are here to provide you with personalized mentorship and counseling through your Journey. All our counselors hold professional degrees while also being deeply rooted in Islamic principles.

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Meet The Counselors

Dr. Hassan Elwan

Psychospiritual Counselor (AMFT #133334)

Dr. Hassan Elwan holds a doctorate in Electrical Engineering from the Ohio State University and a Master's degree in clinical psychology from Pepperdine University. He holds numerous patents and has extensively published in the field of microelectronics. He regularly lectures about Islam and spirituality in Southern California and provides professional counseling services to the community that is grounded in both psychology and spirituality. Dr. Elwan has more than 10 years experience in counseling from both a spiritual and clinical psychology perspective. He is certified in many psychotherapy approaches including Gottman and EFT couple therapy.

Dr. Hira Khan

Counselor/ chaplain/ MFT Trainee

Dr. Hira Khan holds a Doctorate of Pharmacy degree from Rutgers University School of Pharmacy. She also has an Advanced Practice Clinical Pharmacist certification and over the past few years has worked in many different sectors in the pharmaceutical field. She is currently pursuing a masters in Marriage and Family Therapy and is also a certified PreMarital Facilitator and Divorce Mediator. She has certifications in level one Gottman training, prepare/enrich, emotional focused therapy and cognitive behavior therapy. She also represents Muhsen, a special needs nonprofit Muslim organization as the Regional lead for Southern California. Dr. Hira has a passion for relational therapy and enjoys working with couples to help navigate and improve their marital relationship through both the secular and Islamic framework.

On-Line / In-person Locations

The Village at ICOI

Our main location at the Islamic Center of Irvine Village

5530 Trabuco Road, Irvine, CA

Islamic Center of Yorba Linda (ICYL)

We can provide in-person sessions at the Yorba Linda Masjid

4382 Eureka Ave. Yorba Linda, CA 92886

Online

We offer interactive sessions via Zoom

Integrate the program in your organization

We welcome and promote working with other organizations. Our aim is to provide the service to our community, it doesn’t matter under what organization or title. We therefore encourage different masjids and organizations to work with us to integrate this program under their own organization and logo. We will do the work or train your own team to do this program.

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What People Say

Working with Brother Hassan was an invaluable experience for my wife and I as we prepared for marriage. His unique background and of deep understanding of our tradition as Muslims coupled with clinical expertise created a balanced, thoughtful, and spiritually grounded space for us to grow. He helped us navigate important conversations with compassion and clarity, always tying our discussions back to faith and mutual respect. We left each session feeling more connected, more prepared, and more confident in building a marriage rooted in love, mercy, and purpose. We truly can’t recommend him enough to other couples seeking a faith-centered approach to premarital counseling.

Atif

Engaged to be married

Working with Ustadh Hassan Elwan for our pre-marital counseling was truly one of the best things we did for our marriage. He brought together deep Islamic knowledge and therapeutic insight in such a natural, grounded way that felt both spiritual and practical. His warmth, professionalism, and ease made it so comfortable to open up, and through his guidance, we grew closer not only to each other but also to Allah. This kind of support is very much needed in our community and something truly special that laid the foundation for our marriage and continues to benefit us every day.

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Engaged to be married

Get in Touch

  • 5530 Trabuco Road, Irvine, CA, USA

  • +1-949-346-4704

  • premarital4couples@gmail.com

  • Mon-Sat - 08:00-20:00